Self awareness

We have all sorts of reasons to be dissatisfied. The troubling news of the world, the expectations towards economy, the nagging neighbour, the pressure at work, the stressful partner, the child to look after, the sick parent, the crowded supermarket, the traffic jam..... And there are probably many more things that are not mentioned here. To what extent these reasons…

In men, anger is socially acceptable. Anger comes across as competence, and angry men are perceived as assertive. Angry women, on the other hand, are commonly perceived as emotionally unstable. Women have learned that it is not good to be angry. They are afraid it will make them unpopular and unattractive. But swallowing anger comes at a high price: we…

Storytelling is a wonderful self-care practise. It allows you to review, reflect and learn explains Queneisha J. Harvey. I invite you to the challenge to write a short story about your past year using a person an object a place Do you dare? Read here my story of 2021. You can also listen to it with one click. She is…

In the last 15 years I started working with people who showed exceptional qualities and weaknesses and was invited to write down their common domains. I read books by researchers specialising in people intelligence and neuroscience such as Howard Gardner, Gerald Hüther and Mary Elaine Jacobsen to compare the issues discussed with the issues that concern my clients. Since then…